Just because we have the balls and dick doesn't make us impenetrable or giving us the "priority" to have the whole world on our backs. The phrase always goes "you're a man", and what comes behind this phrase are always words of responsibilty for being someone with the balls and dick, "you do it", "it's nothing", "you can take it". Whenever we say no, can't do, we get mocked as "pussy", "not a man", "wimp". Yes, i know lots of people wouldn't mean it, so i take it as a passing phrase, but after hearing it like forever, it fucking gets the shit outta me. So people who always think man/guy/boy can carry the world on our backs, why don't you imagine us fucking crying like a kid when the problem knocks on our doors. Imagine us this way and not some hero which we'll handle everything. People do say things and realise it hurts us but upon thinking we're the man, they think we can take it. Tear/rip my face apart and see the sorrow underneath it, that's where it's hidden. RIGHT BENEATH. Right at the moment we hear something hurtful, i mouth the word fuck and put a smile on my face. That's how fake it goes, people with the balls are entitled to some crying time too.